Dropping Anchor: An ACT Grounding Technique for Anxiety and Emotional Overwhelm

Dropping Anchor is an Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) practice that helps you steady yourself when thoughts, emotions, memories, sensations, or urges feel intense. The name suggests what the practice does: it does not stop the storm, but it helps you find a point of contact while the storm is happening. Dropping Anchor usually includes noticing what is present inside you, connecting with your body, and reorienting to the world around you.

ACT focuses on psychological flexibility, which is the ability to stay present, open up to internal experiences, and move toward what matters even when discomfort is present. Dropping Anchor draws from several ACT processes, including present-moment awareness, acceptance, cognitive defusion, and values-based action. ACT meta-analyses and process reviews support ACT across a range of clinical concerns and highlight psychological flexibility as an important mechanism of change.

Guided Practice
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Start by silently naming what is happening (e.g., “I am noticing anxiety,” “I am having the thought that I cannot handle this,” “There is tightness in my chest”). Then connect with your body by pressing your feet into the floor, noticing your hands, adjusting your posture, or taking a slow breath. Finally, look around and name what you can see, hear, and touch. The practice does not require you to feel calm. It only asks you to come back into contact with the present moment.

Note

Dropping Anchor is useful because it gives you something to do besides arguing with your mind or being swept away by emotion. “Here” may be uncomfortable, but it is also where your choices live. When you can notice the room, your body, and the next small action available to you, the inner experience may still be loud, but it is no longer the only thing in your awareness.

The mind may keep returning to the worry, memory, urge, or prediction. That is not failure. Each return to the anchor is part of the practice. You can say, “My mind is pulling me back into the storm,” and then reconnect with your feet, hands, breath, or surroundings. Dropping Anchor is not a one-time switch. It is a repeated act of returning.

Important Reminder

Dropping Anchor is not a way to force yourself to tolerate unsafe situations. If you are in danger, move toward safety and support. If you are physically safe but emotionally activated, this practice can help create enough stability to choose what matters next. 

References

A-Tjak, J. G. L., Davis, M. L., Morina, N., Powers, M. B., Smits, J. A. J., & Emmelkamp, P. M. G. (2015). A meta-analysis of the efficacy of acceptance and commitment therapy for clinically relevant mental and physical health problems. Psychotherapy and Psychosomatics, 84(1), 30-36. https://doi.org/10.1159/000365764

Gloster, A. T., Walder, N., Levin, M. E., Twohig, M. P., & Karekla, M. (2020). The empirical status of acceptance and commitment therapy: A review of meta-analyses. Journal of Contextual Behavioral Science, 18, 181-192. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jcbs.2020.09.009

Hayes, S. C., Luoma, J. B., Bond, F. W., Masuda, A., & Lillis, J. (2006). Acceptance and commitment therapy: Model, processes and outcomes. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 44(1), 1-25. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.brat.2005.06.006

Öst, L.-G. (2014). The efficacy of acceptance and commitment therapy: An updated systematic review and meta-analysis. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 61, 105-121. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.brat.2014.07.018

Stockton, D., Kellett, S., Berrios, R., Sirois, F., Wilkinson, N., & Miles, G. (2019). Identifying the underlying mechanisms of change during acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT): A systematic review of contemporary mediation studies. Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapy, 47(3), 332-362. https://doi.org/10.1017/S1352465818000553

Z. Hamilton Avery

Z. Hamilton Avery, LCSW, BC-TMH, CMT, CYT-1,000, TIYT (he/they) is a queer and non-binary therapist, health educator, wellness coach, body and energy worker, yoga and meditation teacher, and abstract artist in Tulsa, Oklahoma. In addition to having obtained over a dozen certifications in various modalities of complementary and alternative medicine (CAM), Z holds an associate’s degree in pre-nursing studies, a bachelor’s degree in psychology, and a master’s degree in social work. When supporting clients and students, Z takes a humanistic, person-centered, strengths-based, trauma-informed approach. Their practice is grounded in compassion, harm reduction, inclusivity, social justice, and evidence-based interventions. Ultimately, Z’s mission is to provide a safe and non-judgmental space for adolescents (13+) and adults who are navigating challenges such as anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, pain, and chronic illness; he does this by offering sessions, classes, groups, workshops, retreats, and trainings.

Understanding that mental health is interconnected with many other facets of life, Z takes a holistic approach to therapy. Knowing that there is no one-size-fits-all treatment, he strives to honor the uniqueness of each client by custom-tailoring his approach to best meet the needs, preferences, and goals of each individual. For this reason, Z believes that it is imperative to be cross-trained in many different treatment approaches. As a therapist, they utilize a variety of evidence-based practices, including motivational interviewing (MI), cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), and written exposure therapy (WET). As a body and energy worker, Z is certified to practice massage therapy, Thai yoga massage, myofascial release, craniosacral therapy, and reiki. They are also certified in both Chinese and Japanese styles of acupuncture. After completing more than 1,000 hours of accredited yoga teacher training (primarily in India), Z is certified to teach various styles of yoga, including Hatha, Kundalini, yin, and restorative. He also researches and writes about topics including stress, trauma, self-care, mindfulness, self-compassion, holistic health and well-being, CAM, HIV/AIDS, and issues related to the Two-Spirit, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, agender, plus (2SLGBTQIA+) community.

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